Pre-Covid I was getting bored, which is rarely a good thing for people like me, and so I needed a new target. Something hard, something that would keep me focused for a year or so, and something that might impact my life long-term. And thanks to a friend, who won’t even remember their comment, that... Continue Reading →
What will your gravestone say?
With wind on my side, the chances are I’ll live to about 80, maybe longer if I stay on my current path. And that will see me to just 2055. Yet another sobering thought. Now this post isn’t about getting all glum, I’d much rather focus on life, or more specifically ‘living’, but this post... Continue Reading →
Why are you not drinking?
It’s a simple question isn’t it? Whilst often used as a conversation starter, with no real meaning, this question can be all it takes to encourage someone trying not to drink, to take their first. Saying no to the offer of an alcoholic drink, especially at a work or social events, will be a... Continue Reading →
Gospel Pass: – PLEASE DO stray from the path!
The Gospel Pass (Welsh: Bwlch yr Efengyl) is at the head of the Vale of Ewyas in the Black Mountains in Wales, and it was the destination for Manzone7. Whilst the local town Hay-on-Wye has fast made itself the capital of the Literary festival, the only thing we’d be reading this weekend was a map, and badly… because we were... Continue Reading →
From FAT at 40 to FIT at 50 – Part 1
When it comes to fads, you name it, I’ve tried it. Literally nothing has quite filled the hole in this soul, but let me tell you, that trying to get fit comes pretty close. Yep, it seems I’ve become an ex-drinking, ex-weed smoking, almost vegetarian exercise nutjob - #sorrynotsorry But before you read on, understand... Continue Reading →
A letter to myself – aged 16.
Hi Paul. You’re reading this letter because in 30 years’ time, when you’re 46, you looked back having recognised that it was at this point in your life, you needed a little support. This is because you’re just about to arrive at a number of crossroads, all at the same time, and it’s going to... Continue Reading →
Is a Gratitude list the ultimate way to Kick-Start your Mental Health Journey?
I think so. Never before have I shared my gratitude list, so no copying, but I figured that by sharing mine today, others may give it a go... Are you brave enough to try something new? So what is a gratitude list? Some people do gratitude lists once a week, others once a year but... Continue Reading →
The Thompsonator – Book Reviews…
I happily blame my #BRF buddy Nick for losing three nights of my life to this book by Rich Roll. Having met Nick at my running club, I wasn't overly surprised that his book recommendation was a running book - but it wasn’t the book I thought it would be. Some may know I often... Continue Reading →
Why do I feel like this?
The first chat is often splattered with hilarious stories surrounding booze, cars, work situations, money etc and it's always insightful, but as a professional listener, I’m hearing a different narrative. ‘Please like me’ is what they are saying – ‘I’m fun?’. But they are no-longer having fun, and it’s why they’re talking to me. I... Continue Reading →
Jurassic Coast #WildCamp – Swanage to Lulworth Cove
Swanage is a coastal town and civil parish in the south east of Dorset, England and it is at the eastern end of the Isle of Purbeck Population: 9,601 and that’s where the http://www.Camping-Jedi.com trip started this October. Other than the chat with PC Plod on the way, who gifted me 3 special points, it was... Continue Reading →