What will your gravestone say?

With wind on my side, the chances are I’ll live to about 80, maybe longer if I stay on my current path. And that will see me to just 2055. Yet another sobering thought. Now this post isn’t about getting all glum, I’d much rather focus on life, or more specifically ‘living’, but this post... Continue Reading →

Why are you not drinking?

It’s a simple question isn’t it? Whilst often used as a conversation starter, with no real meaning, this question can be all it takes to encourage someone trying not to drink, to take their first.     Saying no to the offer of an alcoholic drink, especially at a work or social events, will be a... Continue Reading →

From FAT at 40 to FIT at 50 – Part 1

When it comes to fads, you name it, I’ve tried it.  Literally nothing has quite filled the hole in this soul, but let me tell you, that trying to get fit comes pretty close. Yep, it seems I’ve become an ex-drinking, ex-weed smoking, almost vegetarian exercise nutjob - #sorrynotsorry  But before you read on, understand... Continue Reading →

A letter to myself – aged 16.

Hi Paul. You’re reading this letter because in 30 years’ time, when you’re 46, you looked back having recognised that it was at this point in your life, you needed a little support. This is because you’re just about to arrive at a number of crossroads, all at the same time, and it’s going to... Continue Reading →

Why do I feel like this?

The first chat is often splattered with hilarious stories surrounding booze, cars, work situations, money etc and it's always insightful, but as a professional listener, I’m hearing a different narrative. ‘Please like me’ is what they are saying – ‘I’m fun?’. But they are no-longer having fun, and it’s why they’re talking to me. I... Continue Reading →

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